It's been weeks since the breakup and your heart is still in a million pieces.
But you don't want those pieces back; you want her.
If you don't know how to win back your girlfriend, here are some tips that would help.
1.
Don't bombard her.
Calling, emailing, texting might be OK while you're in a relationship, but doing these things when she knows you only want her back might push her further away from you.
Appearing desperate is what you'll be so try not to do silly things like orchestrate a run-in just to see her.
Or try to get her friends and family to give you information on her.
I know you want to keep some connection open so your ex doesn't forget about you, but trust me this won't happen! 2.
Be observant.
Pay attention to what she does and says.
Does she defend you when common friends put you down? Or does she figuratively bury the knife hilt-deep into your back? The way she acts around others and you will clue you in whether she's still interested in you in some way or not.
Use this as you map out the best strategy for how to win back your girlfriend.
3.
Look awesome.
Be awesome.
Growing a beard, going about in three-day-old clothing, and skipping baths will only make her think she ditched you just in time.
If you're tempted to wallow in self-pity and a pigsty of your own making, don't.
Exercise.
Shop for clothes.
Learn a new skill.
Gun for a promotion.
Expand your social circle.
Travel if you can.
She was attracted to the man you had once been; be better than that man.
If how to win back your girlfriend matters to you more than anything, don't leave anything to chance.
Work at winning her heart once more.
Woo her.
Make her feel special.
And while you're at it, be sure to look like you're not only cake she would want to eat; look like you're also the cherry on top.