Are you anxious to win back your lover but have no idea where to begin? Have you been trying to get back together, but the more you try the more they seem to resist? That's because you don't have a plan.
Without a plan, your best efforts are probably going to backfire on you, and you'll end up pushing your lover away to the point where a reunion is impossible.
Most people when trying to win back a lover do everything they can to express how they feel, and try very hard to convince their ex to give them another chance.
This approach, although understandable, is one of the worse things you can do.
Your ex feels pressured when you do this, and it causes them to resist you.
Nobody likes being pressured and your lover is no different.
When the two of you first met, you were probably a relaxed and fun person right? Were you clingy and needy then? Probably not, otherwise they never would have been attracted to you.
That's why it's so important to let go of any behavior that comes across as desperate or pushy and start acting like the real you again.
The best way to win back your lover is to give them some space and show that you're no longer chasing them.
Relax, get your head clear and take a break from contacting them for a while.
This time off will allow your lover some breathing room so they can actually start to miss you.
There is no way they can miss you if you're always throwing yourself at them.
Use this break to find your inner strength so you can become your old self again.
During this time off from the relationship, don't panic if they don't come running back to you overnight.
It may take some time and you'll need to be patient.
Don't be tempted to break down and start writing love letters or calling them in the middle of the night.
Stay strong, stick with a plan and see it through...
this is will give you the best chance to win back your lover and will save you from repeating the same mistakes over and over.