Money

• Money is a traditional gift that is acceptable for a Bar Mitzvah. Another form of money is gift cards, which allow the birthday boy to choose what he wants to purchase. The proper amount to give can be confusing; therefore, consider giving the monetary gift in increments of 18. According to the Jewish Virtual Library, the number 18 is significant in the Jewish faith because the number means "Chai," which translates to life.
  
  

Charitable Donations

• Charitable donations are an acceptable gift to present to the child. Like money, the donation is typically given in increments of 18. Consider giving $18 to the Jewish National Fund for Trees to plant a tree in Israel in honor of the Bar Mitzvah child. Other donations are acceptable, so choose one you feel would be of interest to the him. Along with the donation, give a card to outline what charity you choose, why you choose the charity and a simple congratulations.
  
  

Faith-Based Gifts

• Present the child with a gift from his faith. There are several online and specialty retailers that carry handcrafted gifts or imported gifts from Israel to present to the child, such as dreidels, menorahs and Shabbat candles. If you are unsure of what the child has or would like, speak with his parents to gain suggestions or ask a Rabbi for a special idea. Faith-based gifts can also be given in conjunction with money or a charitable donation.
  
  

Birthday Gifts

• Traditional birthday gifts are acceptable to give to a child for his Bar Mitzvah. Pick out something that interests the child, such as electronics, music, books or jewelry. If you are unsure of what to purchase, speak with his friends or parents to gather ideas. The celebration is held on the birthday of the child, so he may enjoy a less traditional Bar Mitzvah gift.