Everyone loves the beginning of something new; and when it comes to marriage, an exception cannot be made.
That feeling of having the one person you love, cherish most and want to spend the rest of your life with, by your side, can be very exciting and extremely unforgettable.
But when the toll of time begins to sink in; the stormy seas and tough times emerge, and this can be quite uncomfortable and somewhat challenging for most marriages.
One needs to prepare him/herself up to face some of these challenges and make it work irrespective, or an entire dissolution of the union is inevitable, and that is something you should be avoiding.
Keeping a marriage together as well as a husband happy at home, is entirely dependent on a wife's efforts and total input into the marriage.
As the lady of the house, keeping your husband happy will require that extra effort and spicing up to keep him attached to you for life! Thinking of how you can do this? Just follow through these few pointers and you'll do just great.
First of all and most importantly, put aside the constant routing of NAGGING! Most ladies out there reading this would be nodding their heads right now, because they know it's something they do on a daily basis.
But you need to put a halt to this, lady's, it drives the men crazy! Being a constant complainant can make you a pain and can even end up driving your husband away from home.
He will not have that sense or feeling of being around you and might adapt to staying away from you more often, hence keeping late nights.
This is so not a good idea lady's, because he might just end up looking elsewhere to spend the night.
Give your husband an appreciable level of respect at all times.
You heard right...
Yes, you should.
Acknowledge his role as your husband and make him feel loved.
He is your husband and as such the boss of the house literally; never should you degrade or show a lack of respect for him in front of his friends or family, that might just wound his ego.
Men love to be in control and pertaining to their marriage, nothing much changes.
Let him have his way and show him respect even if he's wrong concerning a subject in an argument - men always love to have the upper hand, its part of who they are and you can't change that fact.
This point might sound a little bit crazy and unimportant to most lady's out there; but is a very vital part in every marriage and stands to play a huge role in keeping a husband happy at home.
Wondering what am talking about? SEX!!!! Don't get it twisted lady's, but men LOVE sex, period.
As a wife, you should be able to satisfy your husband when the need arises.
You must never deny him those intimate moments and passionate flames that spark up between you two.
He's your husband honey! He decided to choose you out of dozens of women he's been with to marry and spend the rest of his life with you, the least you can do is to satisfy him where he wants most; in bed! Make him feel wanted and bond with him usually through lovemaking.
A spark you've never imagined can be lit between you two.
Also Lady's, you need to take care of your husband and appreciate him at all times.
Pamper your hubby and make him feel his importance and relevance in your life as well as his value.
Be there for him when he's under the weather; listen to him and cheer him up.
Let him know that you'll always be there for him no matter what.
Loving gestures such as making him his favorite meal, giving him a massage occasionally, letting him hangout with his pals, allowing him watch his favorite TV program or football match etc, can draw him closer to you and keep him by your side forever.
Men love it when their wife's give them that little space and freedom to usually do what they want to do for a change; but an understanding attached to it.
Try this and you'll have him attached to you like forever! Furthermore, TRUST is a very important aspect you must look at when it comes keeping your husband happy.
Trust your husband and have an understanding attitude towards him.
No matter what you've been through in your past relationships and experiences, never take it out on your husband.
Allow him some benefits when it comes to trusting him and do not be quick to judge him in case an issue arises.
Be understanding and tolerant with him as your marriage progresses further, because he might have his short comings but that does not make him untrustworthy.
Your marriage might have its ups and downs, but be sure to be by his side regardless honey.
In a nutshell, marriage will always come along with its variant troubles and hitches but whatever the case, it's entirely dependent on you to turn it around to suit your preference and make it an enjoyable experience.
Your courting stages were fun, despite some few knots here and there, but you guys made it through right? It's just the same with your marriage lady's; just that this time round, it comes along with a little accompanied responsibility and obligations of which you must perform.
But that notwithstanding, you can make it work and keep your home and husband happy.