As you may know, relationships are hard work.
And you shouldn't listen to others who tell you that they aren't.
You and your loved one have so many things to get upset about these days.
And usually, it's the little things that really start to annoy you.
Things like when he's being inconsiderate and leaves the toilet seat up or when she leaves a pile of mail on the table for over a week.
It could be he's "blind" to the pile of dirty socks that you don't want to touch! Over time, these little minor things can start to get on your nerves and really irritate you.
Sooner or later, these little things become big huge white elephants you two can't talk about without fighting and the relationship ends.
But what would you do if you wanted to get your ex back? One of the first things you should do before even attempting to rekindle the romance is try to figure out why you broke up in the first place.
You might be under the impression that the reasons you broke up are not important anymore, but if you are honest with yourself, you will have to admit that they mattered at one time and you need to understand what those issues are before you can move forward.
After identifying the reasons why you broke up in the first place, you need question yourself if you will be able to handle the same situations if they happen again.
And if you think you won't be able to get past that, then there really is no point of getting back together just so you can break up again.
The best thing you can do if you want the relationship to work is learning the art of compromise and to let some things go and ask him to do the same.
The key to any dating relationship working is communication.
If both of you are in the dark about why you broke up and you can't even talk about those relationship issues, then you will never have the opportunity to get your ex back.
And after you have started talking with your ex again, there are some specific things you should consider in your quest for getting your boyfriend or your girlfriend back with you again.