How to Save Your Marriage - What You Can Do to Make Your Spouse Fall in Love With You Again
It's a bitter truth that the spontaneous, all consuming love and infatuation leading to a marriage ends sooner or later.
While some people think it's a "loss of love" overall, what it in fact is the realization of the transition from a simple, superficial, "lust" to a much deeper level of loving.
I have been in this situation and was nearly losing my marriage over it.
It's crucial that you make your spouse understand this.
Bringing Back Love One of the key steps on how to save your marriage by bringing back love is that you stop being negative, depressed and needy.
Do not say things such as "it was all my fault", "I must be the world's worst spouse".
Be self-confident and strong.
This will not only make you a lot more attractive, the power of thinking positive will make YOU more positive as well.
Physical and Emotional Touch When you tell someone that you appreciate what they did, they like this very much - and when it comes to marriages, it's all those small things that build up and matter.
When your spouse does something positive, even the smallest of things, show your appreciation, don't hold yourself back.
Physical affection is another very important point in saving your marriage.
A brief, warm hug can and will make wonders in making your spouse remember the real and deep love associated to being a married couple, facing difficult problems in life every day.
Take Care of Yourself Yes, you are married but that doesn't mean you don't have to look good to your spouse.
Over time you might have become insensitive to the feelings your spouse has towards you, which makes you care less about your physical appearance.
As a famous chef once said - "people always eat with their eyes first".
So whatever reaction your spouse will give to you for any matter will be AFTER his/her brain will filter the thoughts according to its interpretation of how good you are looking.
While some people think it's a "loss of love" overall, what it in fact is the realization of the transition from a simple, superficial, "lust" to a much deeper level of loving.
I have been in this situation and was nearly losing my marriage over it.
It's crucial that you make your spouse understand this.
Bringing Back Love One of the key steps on how to save your marriage by bringing back love is that you stop being negative, depressed and needy.
Do not say things such as "it was all my fault", "I must be the world's worst spouse".
Be self-confident and strong.
This will not only make you a lot more attractive, the power of thinking positive will make YOU more positive as well.
Physical and Emotional Touch When you tell someone that you appreciate what they did, they like this very much - and when it comes to marriages, it's all those small things that build up and matter.
When your spouse does something positive, even the smallest of things, show your appreciation, don't hold yourself back.
Physical affection is another very important point in saving your marriage.
A brief, warm hug can and will make wonders in making your spouse remember the real and deep love associated to being a married couple, facing difficult problems in life every day.
Take Care of Yourself Yes, you are married but that doesn't mean you don't have to look good to your spouse.
Over time you might have become insensitive to the feelings your spouse has towards you, which makes you care less about your physical appearance.
As a famous chef once said - "people always eat with their eyes first".
So whatever reaction your spouse will give to you for any matter will be AFTER his/her brain will filter the thoughts according to its interpretation of how good you are looking.
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