For many guys that have been dumped by their girlfriend, trying to figure out how to get her back can be mind boggling.
There are not many guys that just know what to do, it's something that has never taught.
If you are absolutely sure you want to get your girlfriend back then follow then read below for some insight to get you started.
First thing you need to do is stop trying to get her back now, whatever you might be doing to get her will not work.
Don't try to bribe her with gifts or money or promises you can't keep, you are only putting yourself down by doing this and pushing her further away from you.
She left you for a reason and all you can do right now is leave her alone to think about this break up.
Your best bet now is to think about why she left you.
Did you cause this mess? If indeed it was your doing then don't spend any time worrying over what you did wrong, its done and you can't go back and change it.
But what you can do if you want to get her back is fix what you did so it doesn't happen again.
Did she left you because you were a dominating type of person or you didn't trust her, always checking up on what she was doing.
Then you need to learn to change this behavior because if she left you for these reasons there is no way she will get back into it unless she lacked self esteem or you proved you have overcome it.
You can also work on your self esteem and build your own confidence.
Many times the lack of these is what causes a boyfriend to be controlling of the girlfriend.
There are many other reasons she could have left you so think hard about your relationship and you will see a pattern develop that will give you your clues.