How To Make Your Breakup Work For You
When my breakup happened, it took me a while to really believe that it was over.
I made the mistake of begging for him to stay, keeping in touch, appeasing, accommodating, and compromising for a long time.
When I was continually rejected, it left me on the verge of losing myself.
But this does not have to happen for you.
You can make your breakup work in your favor.
#1 You can decide to have self respect by cutting yourself off from your EX.
I don't care how much attraction you may have or how much you're still wanting to have a relationship with him/her.
Let your EX know by your actions that you are DONE.
This kind of attitude will put the power back in your hands and may have your EX running back to you in no time asking for a second chance.
Do the opposite and you'll earn the reputation of being a psycho dumpee.
#2 Make him/her sit and think for a long, long time about leaving you, especially if you were done wrong.
Instead of being a motor mouth by telling your EX how much you're hurting, become silent and withdraw.
There's so much power in silence because it keeps the other person guessing about your true intentions.
If he/she wants to talk to you after the breakup, just say that you're really busy and keep walking.
#3 Having a broken heart is not an easy thing and getting through it is painful.
You want to do whatever you have to do in order to get to a place where you can be like the hottest, most appealing person on planet earth because this sort of confidence will pump up your self esteem and make you look and feel attractive.
Dress like a hottie, walk like a hottie, talk like a hottie and you will feel like a hottie.
#4 Force yourself to be happy.
Do not allow your life to be ruled by someone who wanted to get rid of you.
You may have been done wrong, but do yourself right.
#5 Pursue your goals, get out and try new things, and keep up with your social life.
You may not want to be around anyone but there's nothing more sad than being like a bat in a cave waiting for the night.
I made the mistake of begging for him to stay, keeping in touch, appeasing, accommodating, and compromising for a long time.
When I was continually rejected, it left me on the verge of losing myself.
But this does not have to happen for you.
You can make your breakup work in your favor.
#1 You can decide to have self respect by cutting yourself off from your EX.
I don't care how much attraction you may have or how much you're still wanting to have a relationship with him/her.
Let your EX know by your actions that you are DONE.
This kind of attitude will put the power back in your hands and may have your EX running back to you in no time asking for a second chance.
Do the opposite and you'll earn the reputation of being a psycho dumpee.
#2 Make him/her sit and think for a long, long time about leaving you, especially if you were done wrong.
Instead of being a motor mouth by telling your EX how much you're hurting, become silent and withdraw.
There's so much power in silence because it keeps the other person guessing about your true intentions.
If he/she wants to talk to you after the breakup, just say that you're really busy and keep walking.
#3 Having a broken heart is not an easy thing and getting through it is painful.
You want to do whatever you have to do in order to get to a place where you can be like the hottest, most appealing person on planet earth because this sort of confidence will pump up your self esteem and make you look and feel attractive.
Dress like a hottie, walk like a hottie, talk like a hottie and you will feel like a hottie.
#4 Force yourself to be happy.
Do not allow your life to be ruled by someone who wanted to get rid of you.
You may have been done wrong, but do yourself right.
#5 Pursue your goals, get out and try new things, and keep up with your social life.
You may not want to be around anyone but there's nothing more sad than being like a bat in a cave waiting for the night.
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