Did you know that if you had all the self control in the right places, that you could get your ex back? You see, the higher the self control that you can have, the better chances you have of getting your ex back.
If you want him/her back it really has nothing to do with how they are acting now; but rather how you are acting.
Your ex has once had strong feelings for you, and it is your job to find out how to bring those feelings to the surface again.
Here is how you can psychologically play your ex into taking you back finally...
Act like you moved on- You should at all costs, show your ex that you have in fact moved on.
The instant your ex feels like this, he/she will be afraid that they are losing you forever.
They will work hard for your attention, and will no longer take you for granted.
Your ex will have no choice but to suddenly work hard to get your time and care, because they will feel like you just rejected them.
Act as happy as you can- No matter who you are around, act like the breakup was a good thing.
When you do this, you will show your ex that they were the one holding you back.
Your ex will feel guilty, and think they were choking you in the relationship.
This will make him/her try to change to be what you want.
It is important to do this no matter who you are around, so that if your ex talks to your friends they can give this positive feedback.
Be the person who doesn't care about your ex- Be the last person to care about your ex; at least on the surface.
You see, this is the most important rule, and if you follow this your ex will immediately feel a burning to make you care.
When your ex feels a sudden loss of feeling from you, he/she will get psychologically programmed to then begin trying to get you back fast.