Are you in the midst of a coming tragedy and you're desperate to stop an unwanted divorce? It happens all the time.
It almost happened to me in fact.
It wasn't long ago that I was in the midst of a divorce on the horizon and was feeling helpless.
There were times when I said screw this let's just get it over with.
But there were more times when I was basically panicking and praying for something to help my marriage and stop my unwanted divorce.
The Reason Why So Many People Have Divorces They Didn't Want In the First Place...
On of the main causes of divorce is how easy it is to get a divorce.
That may not make a whole lot of sense yet but it will.
You see divorce is one of the easiest legal contracts in the world to get out of.
Sure it might be expensive, and it might be a process to go through, but basically it's an easy out for couples who are in trouble.
But let's think about something.
What if divorce wasn't an option? What if once you got married there was no way out.
What do you think most people would do? Well, I know what I would do because I did it.
They would figure out a way to make it work instead of being miserable for the rest of their lives.
How to Stop Your Divorce Dead in It's Tracks...
The best and easiest way to stop unwanted divorce is to simply take it off of the table as an option in your mind.
You see, having a getaway in the back of your mind is the most dangerous thing in the world to a marriage.
Marriage is meant to last forever...
I mean you said so and committed to that if you got married in a church.
But these have just become words in our new world.
It's just something that you say, but did you mean it? Time will tell I suppose, but it's up to you to make that decision.
If you did mean it then it's time to take the option off of the table...
It's time to step up and get real about your commitment.
Basically it's time to go on with your marriage without a safety net.
It's time to stop this unwanted divorce.
But What If My Spouse Wants a Divorce...
Well unless there's abuse going on (if there's abuse all bets are off, just get out) then simply refuse to get divorced, talk about divorce, or anything.
It's off the table.
It takes two to divorce.
Basically in your mind your taking it off of the table, and in your spouse's mind you're delaying it.