There are many reasons why married men leave.
Some of the reasons have nothing to do with the wife.
But she will blame herself anyway.
Could the wife have been more supportive? Maybe.
Could the wife have been more understanding? Maybe.
But even if the wife would have done all of these things and more, sometimes it would not have made a bit of difference.
Sometimes the husband will leave despite all of the love and support that the wife will give.
Let's get to the bottom of this.
First of all, a REAL husband will not leave his wife and family.
That's point blank.
A REAL man will miss his wife and family.
A REAL man will do everything in his power to make his relationship and his family WORK! So, if your man has left his wife and family, in my opinion, he is not a REAL man! Because, even though it is hard being married, just leaving is the easy way out.
And a real man doesn't take the easy way out.
He will go through the worst for his family.
So don't blame yourself, there is a lot more going on than you think.
Reason #1 Your man has a lot going on in his mind.
And it has everything to do with his upbringing.
If his father has brought him up to respect his wife and take care of family, he will live that creed TO THE LETTER! But, if your man was brought up in a single parent home, with a single mother, there are two possible outcomes: 1.
He could have saw his mother doing the best that she could and resent his father for leaving.
This resentment will make him try his best to do everything in his power to NOT be like his father.
2.
He mother blamed him for everything that has happened to her! This resentment from his mother only reinforces the "no responsibility" gene within him.
Thus, as mush as he doesn't want it to happen, he DOES BECOME JUST LIKE HIS FATHER! Reason #2 We are all human.
And the best of us fall to the devices and seduction of a beautiful woman.
I know that that is NO kind of excuse, but sometimes that is just what happens.
NO REAL MAN will leave his wife if they have a loving, beautiful relationship.
But, if there is a hint of disrespect, misunderstanding, and no communication in the marriage, this will make the seduction mentioned earlier that much more powerful! If this is the case, then the marriage can be saved.
Reason #3 Sometimes if your man is the daredevil type, and the home-wrecker is the exact opposite personality of the wife, then these two personalities get together, and take chances.
This reason is one of the most perplexing for the wife.
"Why would my husband leave me for her?" It's because the personality of the home-wrecker is what he is really looking for, and the wife was the safe bet.
That may sound kind of harsh, but sometimes a man will marry a woman because she is the "safe bet.
" She is the kind of woman that he knows will be with him no matter what he does.
She maybe the kind of woman his mother was, so he marries her, to complete his journey.
But then here comes a speed bump in his journey and he takes a walk on the wild side.
Most of the time, this walk on the wild side is short lived, and he comes right back to the life he knows and loves!