Your lover had just dumped you, but you have still not moved on from the break-up.
However, since your relationship has problems to begin with, it is easy to make the wrong moves and lose the chance to get back with your ex forever.
There are at least four mistakes you should never make, if you want your ex back.
Being emotional - It will not get you any further with you ex if you display mood swings, looking depressed all the time and complaining about why he or she had left you.
Anything negative you say or do will only hurt your chances of getting back together, so think carefully.
Blaming your ex - Saying that it is your ex's fault why the relationship had gone sour should never be mentioned out loud.
If your ex gets wind of this accusation, it will only fuel the fire and reinforce his or her decision to leave you and worse, your ex may never ever consider speaking to you again.
Getting clingy - Calling your ex dozens of times a day, showing up at his or her front door or office everyday and hanging around beneath your ex's window every night is not a display of affection.
It is called "stalking.
" Of course, you mean well, but your ex might misunderstand and think you are a psychopath.
It is better to avoid calling or visiting your ex too much and make him or her wonder what you are up to.
Spreading gossip - Telling people embarrassing stories about your ex is an absolute no-no, especially if you go around the same social circle.
If one of these stories gets back to your ex, be prepared to get a cold shoulder.
Either that or your ex will hunt you and bring you down hard.
This is not a place you want to be with your ex if you intend on getting back together.