Making a relationship work is never easy.
It takes a commitment from both parties involved.
Each of you must do your share of compromising and sacrificing to get this to work.
When trying to get your ex back fast, it is always helpful to bear this in mind.
So what's the big secret to getting your ex back? It's really quite simple, but it may not always be easy.
The one secret that will be critical when you want to get your ex back fast is flexibility-a willingness to change.
Let me explain.
If you have been through a break up recently, then obviously something is broken-hence the word break up.
Yes, the overall relationship is broken, but there are components of it from you and from your ex that are broken as well.
So, the first thing you need to do to get your ex back fast is to fix what's broken in yourself.
"But what about my ex?" Yes, your ex has things to work on too, but you can only address your own issues.
Now let's get to the bottom of this key question-what did you do to contribute to the break up? Be honest with yourself.
It would also help if you let go of the anger and bitterness you may be holding toward your ex that is clouding your judgment on this question.
So, honestly, what did you do to drive your ex away? Were you too controlling? Did you demand too much of them? Did you ignore them? Did you get too comfortable in the relationship and started to take your ex a little bit for granted? What other behaviors do you have that might have contributed to the break up? Write down all the answers you can think of to what you might have done to contribute to the break up.
Examine which of these things you are able and willing to change.
If you are willing to be proactive and correct the things you have control of, this will be a great first step to get your ex back fast.