The Way Picking Up Girls Should Be
Pick up is an art. While some are born with a natural affinity to it, there are those who are clueless where to begin. If you do not have this talent, well, do not be discouraged - there are experts who are generous enough to share such discipline (coughs)
Let's pretend you're in a bar with your friends. From a distance sits a beautiful girl, your dream girl, what now?
First off, dont be desperate.
The easiest way to getting yourself shot down is to appear desperate. Trying to hard will make your statements sound like it's coming from a psycho killer.Just keep your shoulders loose, jack up your confidence and walk up to the girl. Have the power to control yourself, act with honor.Let you energy tell the girl that she'll have fun while being with you.
Just go for it.
Remember this lesson, paste it in the tablet of your heart: the first and worst trouble that keeps guys from doing the pickup are themselves. Know yourself very well, thats why a thorough and unbiased auto-assessment is required in this field.
Like a detective, try to find out if she's really interested in knowing you. Any suggestion in case I fail? Success should be your goal, never think of failure!
All these questions and all common obstacles that make guys doubt themselves before approaching that girl can be answered only after you make your move. Forget about how things are going to turn out and just go for it.
Do not place her on a pedestal. Always keep in mind: getting the girl's yes is not the goal, well, not initially anyway. As you move to her, erase that "picking-up" on your energy.
Go near her and try to find out if you like her as your partner. You find her appearance attractive but this does not mean that you are going to pick her up automatically. Be in control of the situation.
If you dont like her then you can just walk away.
Be positive in picking up girls, this will make you successful. Have a cheerful outlook as good vibes do spread to others. If you manage to make her happy, then youre almost there. The problem most guys have with regards to picking up girls is that they view this as a negative thing. Make her feel safe in your presence.
Make her smile all the time. To her, her beauty is yesterdays news. But be cool when saying a compliment. Do not make her feel sleepy.
These tips will be good for you, be calm. The rest is up to you. Practice with every interaction you have. Get some practice to fine tune your own style. Learn this art, learn it now!
Let's pretend you're in a bar with your friends. From a distance sits a beautiful girl, your dream girl, what now?
First off, dont be desperate.
The easiest way to getting yourself shot down is to appear desperate. Trying to hard will make your statements sound like it's coming from a psycho killer.Just keep your shoulders loose, jack up your confidence and walk up to the girl. Have the power to control yourself, act with honor.Let you energy tell the girl that she'll have fun while being with you.
Just go for it.
Remember this lesson, paste it in the tablet of your heart: the first and worst trouble that keeps guys from doing the pickup are themselves. Know yourself very well, thats why a thorough and unbiased auto-assessment is required in this field.
Like a detective, try to find out if she's really interested in knowing you. Any suggestion in case I fail? Success should be your goal, never think of failure!
All these questions and all common obstacles that make guys doubt themselves before approaching that girl can be answered only after you make your move. Forget about how things are going to turn out and just go for it.
Do not place her on a pedestal. Always keep in mind: getting the girl's yes is not the goal, well, not initially anyway. As you move to her, erase that "picking-up" on your energy.
Go near her and try to find out if you like her as your partner. You find her appearance attractive but this does not mean that you are going to pick her up automatically. Be in control of the situation.
If you dont like her then you can just walk away.
Be positive in picking up girls, this will make you successful. Have a cheerful outlook as good vibes do spread to others. If you manage to make her happy, then youre almost there. The problem most guys have with regards to picking up girls is that they view this as a negative thing. Make her feel safe in your presence.
Make her smile all the time. To her, her beauty is yesterdays news. But be cool when saying a compliment. Do not make her feel sleepy.
These tips will be good for you, be calm. The rest is up to you. Practice with every interaction you have. Get some practice to fine tune your own style. Learn this art, learn it now!
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