How Do I Get My Ex Back When I"ve Screwed Things Up So Bad?

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During a break up it's very easy to go overboard and really screw things up.
You may be thinking that everything is so messed up that you can never have a chance of getting back with your ex.
The good news is that it may not be as bad as you think.
Many times you can make up for your mess-ups with some time and effort.
At the time your behavior may have seemed logical or like the only thing you could do.
Some of the most common mistakes people make when a breakup happens are: Begging and crying for your ex to take you back Bombarding them with text messages Calling them when you're drunk Saying you're sorry even when you don't know why Professing undying love for them over and over again If you have done any or all of these things I am guessing it only served to push your ex even further away.
None of these things are ways to get your ex back.
It is, however, a great way to make them think you are pretty much psycho.
They will often seek out a new relationship so they can 'get over' you.
And that isn't what you want at all! In order to get past these mistakes, you have to distance yourself for a time.
Don't call or contact them at all.
It will take some time, but as they begin to see you 'out and about' and you don't bother them or act weird they will become more comfortable with having you around.
Once they start seeing you acting normally around other people, they will start to see you as being normal again, too.
It's hard to be freaked out by someone who is having a great time laughing and joking around.
Getting back together with an ex is a lot more possible if they don't see you as a stalker.
Once you have been demoted from 'stalker' to 'normal' person again you can slowly start to interact with them from time to time.
Be sure to keep things casual and light and don't come on strong, or you will undo all the progress you've made so far.
Make yourself attractive to your ex by letting them see that you are still desirable to others.
A little flirting and some casual dating with other people will make them see you in a whole different light.
It's amazing how much people want what they think they can't have.
Getting back with your ex may seem like child's play if they think you are out of reach.
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