Although many marriages become stronger as the years go by, as sad as it is, there are some that lose all the bliss and excitement that was there in the beginning.
If you are one of these unfortunate people whose marriage looks as if it is heading for disaster, please understand that there is definitely something that you can do to save your marriage.
It is going to take some hard work from you and your spouse, but, if you work together, you will both benefit from your efforts.
The first thing that you MUST do, as soon as possible, is sit down and discuss the problems in your marriage and decide what you are going to do to fix them.
It should be a discussion with both of you willing to admit to your own mistakes, and NOT have arguments about who is to blame for what.
Remember, you are trying to save your marriage, and the problems that are causing the unhappiness between the two of you have to be solved before it is too late.
There are probably many things that are being said and done that are irritating both of you, so, admit to them, and then stop doing them immediately.
Make a point of letting each other know just how much you still love each other.
Not only now, but ALL the time - it is very important to know that you are really special to your partner as the years go by.
Have respect for each other, and try to NOT say and do things that you know will hurt your partner - this will naturally cause resentment and result in arguments.
And, VERY importantly, whenever a problem arises, talk about it right away, and solve it immediately, instead of brooding about it for days.
Your partner won't know what's wrong unless you tell him/her about it.
Love each other, communicate all the time, and you WILL save your marriage.