If someone whom we deeply love and care for decides to leave us, our first reaction would be to go into a fit of depression.
We become sad and melancholic, fail to care for our bodies and self, go on a drinking spree, and grow a beard if you are male.
We refuse to come out of our homes and sit closeted in rooms crying our hearts out as if it is the end of the world.
The worst is not yet over so brace yourself.
Have a clear mind to help you make effective plans to woo your ex back.
It's time you decided on a strategy that would make your ex think they actually want to come back to you.
For this you need some effective psychological tricks that play on their minds.
Follow the tricks listed below and watch with amazement at how your ex comes running back to you.
1.
First and foremost stop blaming yourself for the disaster.
Learn to be positive.
Stop all negative traits like complaining, cribbing, crying begging and pleading with your ex.
That's not going to work at all and it's going to send them running for cover instead.
2.
Show your ex that you are still happy even without them.
Nothing can touch you.
You are strong enough to carry on with your life.
Make sure that you stay away from your ex without intruding in their space without their permission.
This will only enhance the respect they have for you.
3.
if you do happen to have a chat with your ex, then ensure you agree to all their views.
Arguing with them will make matters worse even if you know that you are in the right.
Setting aside your ego a little is not going to harm you.
You sure can accept some blame if it is going to bring back your loved one.
That's all that matters.
4.
Jealousy is a wonderful psychological tool you could use effectively.
You need to use it judicially with great care.
Plan dates with other singles and make sure your ex knows about them.
This act of yours is going to make them go green with jealousy.