I get asked all the time how to save a marriage that is headed for divorce.
It is pretty common for one spouse to want out while the other wants to hang in there and make things right.
If it's your desire to save this marriage now, then you'll need to avoid the destructive mistakes that are making the problem worse.
I learned what I am about to share with you by experiencing it myself and have since learned that millions of others have had similar experiences.
Don't be one of them! The fact is that most of us just aren't equipped with an instruction manual for fixing a broken marriage.
When the marriage has reached the point where divorce seems inevitable, you'll need to be completely prepared for what to do as well as what NOT to do.
The following are some of the most common mistakes that so many people make when trying to save their marriages from a divorce.
Please avoid these at all cost:

• Making promises to change
• Constant phone calls or emails to your spouse in an attempt to talk to them
• Begging your spouse to reconsider
• Buying gifts
• Acting clingy or desperate
• Arguing or showing anger towards your spouse
• Any kind of acts of retaliation or making threats
• Using your children to make your spouse feel guilty
• Having an affair
• Drinking alcohol or using drugs

Don't be a doormat! You look weak and you will surrender all the power to your spouse.
Any of these mistakes will make the situation worse, I promise! There is a much more effective and proven way to save your marriage that works even if you are the only one trying to save this marriage.
It takes a willingness on your part to do things that may seem like the complete opposite of what you should be doing.
But they work! You are the only one who knows what will happen if you don't take action to save your marriage!