Getting Back the One You Love!
Getting back the one you love is an exercise in finesse.
The biggest problem you'll have is the clutter your own brain is going to produce to confuse you.
The fact of the matter is that love is simple, the other fact is that we think to much and overcomplicate it.
I think any two people can make love work, I don't see why not.
I don't think its always easy and I know you have to compromise on issues your not going to like.
I know relationships turn really ugly really fast sometimes, and then you've broken up and you both still love each other.
However you just can't seem to make it work, the arguments fester.
The beautiful thing that happens now is that you have an opportunity to start over.
The breakup has already happened! You have nothing left to lose, you've hit ground zero.
Now you can build a stronger relationship than you had already.
Now, let me say this, I don't think your ready for that.
I think it takes a lot of time after a breakup before you have the reserve energy needed to rebuild a relationship from scratch practically.
So don't worry about rushing this, if you two are meant to work out you will.
It really is that simple, as long as your focus is on fixing your relationship, your going to have trouble.
Your focus needs to be on everything you love, or loved, about your ex.
This is only if you want to get your ex back, I'm assuming if your reading this article that is the category you fit into.
If you want to move on by all means don't focus on what you loved about your ex, focus on what you hated.
Too many people tell me they want to get their ex back and then go on to tell me everything they hated about the relationship.
You can only be on one side of the fence and you gotta pick or you're going to have a very difficult time.
So I hope these realizations help you in getting back the one you love.
I know I didn't tell you the standard give him time and work on yourself bit, I've said that before.
I thought maybe I'd give you some personal lessons from my own life that I hope will benefit you half as much as they have me.
Good luck.
The biggest problem you'll have is the clutter your own brain is going to produce to confuse you.
The fact of the matter is that love is simple, the other fact is that we think to much and overcomplicate it.
I think any two people can make love work, I don't see why not.
I don't think its always easy and I know you have to compromise on issues your not going to like.
I know relationships turn really ugly really fast sometimes, and then you've broken up and you both still love each other.
However you just can't seem to make it work, the arguments fester.
The beautiful thing that happens now is that you have an opportunity to start over.
The breakup has already happened! You have nothing left to lose, you've hit ground zero.
Now you can build a stronger relationship than you had already.
Now, let me say this, I don't think your ready for that.
I think it takes a lot of time after a breakup before you have the reserve energy needed to rebuild a relationship from scratch practically.
So don't worry about rushing this, if you two are meant to work out you will.
It really is that simple, as long as your focus is on fixing your relationship, your going to have trouble.
Your focus needs to be on everything you love, or loved, about your ex.
This is only if you want to get your ex back, I'm assuming if your reading this article that is the category you fit into.
If you want to move on by all means don't focus on what you loved about your ex, focus on what you hated.
Too many people tell me they want to get their ex back and then go on to tell me everything they hated about the relationship.
You can only be on one side of the fence and you gotta pick or you're going to have a very difficult time.
So I hope these realizations help you in getting back the one you love.
I know I didn't tell you the standard give him time and work on yourself bit, I've said that before.
I thought maybe I'd give you some personal lessons from my own life that I hope will benefit you half as much as they have me.
Good luck.
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