You're planning to get her back? This might sound a bit strange, but like every successful endeavour, you need some sort of plan.
Especially if you want to do it effectively! It makes all the difference between getting your girlfriend back in your life or a failure to accomplish it.
Brace yourself for what I am going to advice because you might think I am kidding when I tell you that the most effective way to get her back is to stay away from her.
Yes, you heard it right, literally leave her alone.
When a girl says she needs space, it is exactly that.
She means it; she really needs a time away from you.
When your ex says she doesn't want to see you around, she's telling you the truth.
So be man enough, give her time to pick up the pieces of her life and adjust with the situation in her own way.
"What about me?" you might ask yourself.
Well, you got to learn to cope with the breakup yourself.
Have a touch-base with your own feelings.
Prove to her that you are a precious gem to lose.
Try your best to be a better person inside and out; the man that she hopes you'd be.
Meaning, there needs to be tangible improvement from your physical appearance to your character.
This way, you'd not only feel good about yourself, you'd even look good.
Now, with a personality makeover, you need to be composed and cool.
Ladies might start noticing you, but you need to remember the reason for doing the makeover in the first place.
So if you want to get her back, draw the line when dealing with other ladies.
Be friendly but not overly accommodating; be collected but warm.
Always stick to the rules of friendship.
And once your ex takes notice of you and begins to make contact, grab the opportunity to get her back as this might be your second and last chance.