So you've made a bad move and your girlfriend is mad at you.
You've had a fight and she's not returning your calls.
Maybe she even broke up with you.
How do you win her back? Before you take action, think about what caused the rift in the first place.
Did you say or do something insensitive or something that could be perceived as such? Remember that women are generally more emotion-oriented than men, and often try to determine what you "really meant" by what you said or did.
If you really can't figure it out, ask her or one of her close friends.
Tell her that you are trying to understand what you did wrong.
(Don't be arrogant or assume she's in the wrong for misunderstanding you.
) It is possible that the problem is a simple misunderstanding.
Perhaps you said something flippant that she took too seriously.
Men and women tend to interpret things very differently, so this sort of thing is extremely common.
If that is the case, you can probably get your girl back by telling her that it really was a miscommunication.
If you mentioned you hate argyle sweaters and she then informs you she had knitted one for your Christmas present, you have some apologizing to do, but it should end with you gratefully accepting the sweater (and praising the effort that went into it).
If you truly did something wrong, getting the girl back will definitely involve a sincere apology.
If she won't talk to you (or even if she will), a hand-written letter will come across as sweet and thoughtful.
Get someone to help you with it, if needed (sister, coworker, or girl-savvy friend), but absolutely do not let someone else write it for you.
It has to be your own words.
Some simple flowers will go nicely with the note.
Deliver them to her and express your (sincere) apology and ask for her forgiveness.
If you are truly honest with her, you'll get her back!