Tip 1.
You have to be serious.
If you're not sure about getting your ex backthen you shouldn't be trying.
You have to really know that it's what you wantor you won't be prepared to put the necessary effort in to winning back yourex.
And if you do win her back, anything less than 100% commitment means thatyou'll probably lose her again.
Tip 2.
No one likes pressure and that's especially true of your exgirlfriend.
Don't hassle her with phone calls, emails or text messages unlessyou want to drive her further away.
She'll respect you for respecting her needfor space.
Tip 3.
Look after yourself.
This is really important.
Your ex girlfriendwill not be impressed if you let yourself go.
Join a gym or go running.
Ahealthy body is essential for a healthy mind and this will keep you focused andpositive.
If your girlfriend does suddenly turn up you don't want to be rushingaround trying to hide the empty beer cans and take-aways.
Tip 4.
Don't put your life on hold.
Be open to new experiences and feelings.
Date other girls.
This will help to keep things in perspective and inproportion.
If you remain fixated on your ex it will be harder to think clearlyabout the situation.
Tip 5.
Here's the last tip, now that you've followed all the tips above.
Beprepared to work at getting back your ex girlfriend, but don't let it takeover your life.
Develop a strategy to get your ex back and work at it.
Followthe plan, but keep the rest of your life moving too.
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