Getting your ex back is not an easy task because what you feel like doing may not necessary be the right thing to do.
For example, if you have just broken up, you probably wish to contact your ex now so that you can get him/her back.
However, that is probably not the right thing to do.
Why is that so? Most likely, you are feeling extremely emotional now.
There is no way you can get your ex back when you are very emotional.
At this point in time, it is very easy for you to do and say the wrong things.
If you call your ex but your ex is ignoring you and not picking up the phone, you will probably panic.
What you feel like doing is to call your ex over and over again until he/she pick up the phone.
However, that is not the right thing to do either.
If you do that, your ex will know that you are desperate.
Desperation is not going to get you anywhere when it comes to saving your relationship.
In fact, it will lower your ex's respect for you and confirm his/her decision to break up with you.
But there is no need for you to worry too much.
You are not alone and there are many people in the same situation as you.
Although getting your ex is not easy, it is not impossible either.
As long as you know what to do and what not to do, it is possible to get your ex back eventually.