If you want to improve your marriage, most likely things are not going so well.
Hopefully your marriage is not in a real bad place, if that is true, there are a few very useful things you can do to improve it.
Most marriages loose their sparkle over time.
We become accustom to each other.
Instead of lovers, we become roommates.
We wear sweats or boxer shorts around the house.
We don't do the little things we used to do that we knew made our spouses feel special.
It usually becomes a case of "she knows I love her" or "I'm so busy with the kids, I don't have time to run extra errands.
" Whether it's a case of life getting in the way or apathy, we just don't take the time to do the special things for each other the way we used to when our relationship was new and exciting.
That is kind of the key, take the time and do the little special things that you used to do for your spouse.
What were the things you could do for your spouse that would make them light up? Well just start doing those things again.
Of course this isn't the answer to every situation that comes up in a marriage that needs fixing, but it definitely is something that can improve many relationships.
While it might seem hard to make these changes, you have to understand what your alternatives.
Divorce? Separation? Not seeing your kids? The list goes on.
So take the time to make your mate feel special today.