How to Stay Positive After Getting Dumped
Getting dumped just flat out sucks doesn't it? That question is an easy one to answer for obvious reasons.
One of the hardest things to do after getting dumped is figure out how to keep from feeling horrible especially with the holiday season upon us.
It's understandable that you had a routine when you were in a relationship.
In other words you either got used to waking up next to this person every morning, or you had sex on a regular basis, whatever the case may be.
All of a sudden that has now gone away.
Now the next question becomes, how in the world do I keep a positive outlook on life after I feel like I just lost everything? First of all don't spend a great deal of time alone dwelling on it, you're only going to feel worse.
Instead get together with friends, especially ones that make you laugh.
I'm sure that rather than crying or feeling depressed you would prefer to laugh.
Go out to a movie or go bowling, just do something to keep your mind occupied on something other than a breakup or divorce.
Secondly, if you have a hobby that you like to do and you just didn't have time for it or you just sort of lost interest in it because you were in a relationship, maybe it's time get back to some of your old roots and get back to basics.
The point is do something that you like to do and makes you happy.
The problem I tend to see a lot of is people won't do something they like because they are afraid of what someone else might think.
You know what I say to that, " the hell with them ",don't worry about what anybody else thinks you are your own person, you control your own destiny.
As far as I'm concerned the world is what you make it.
Look at it this way your only on this earth one time, so I say make the most of it.
Make the changes you need to make to stay focused and to keep a positive attitude on life in general.
Always remember that you are not alone in this department, well I'm sure you already know that but I thought I would just say it anyway.
I hope this article was helpful and I also hope you decide to continue moving forward in your life.
One of the hardest things to do after getting dumped is figure out how to keep from feeling horrible especially with the holiday season upon us.
It's understandable that you had a routine when you were in a relationship.
In other words you either got used to waking up next to this person every morning, or you had sex on a regular basis, whatever the case may be.
All of a sudden that has now gone away.
Now the next question becomes, how in the world do I keep a positive outlook on life after I feel like I just lost everything? First of all don't spend a great deal of time alone dwelling on it, you're only going to feel worse.
Instead get together with friends, especially ones that make you laugh.
I'm sure that rather than crying or feeling depressed you would prefer to laugh.
Go out to a movie or go bowling, just do something to keep your mind occupied on something other than a breakup or divorce.
Secondly, if you have a hobby that you like to do and you just didn't have time for it or you just sort of lost interest in it because you were in a relationship, maybe it's time get back to some of your old roots and get back to basics.
The point is do something that you like to do and makes you happy.
The problem I tend to see a lot of is people won't do something they like because they are afraid of what someone else might think.
You know what I say to that, " the hell with them ",don't worry about what anybody else thinks you are your own person, you control your own destiny.
As far as I'm concerned the world is what you make it.
Look at it this way your only on this earth one time, so I say make the most of it.
Make the changes you need to make to stay focused and to keep a positive attitude on life in general.
Always remember that you are not alone in this department, well I'm sure you already know that but I thought I would just say it anyway.
I hope this article was helpful and I also hope you decide to continue moving forward in your life.
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