Some warning signs of a relationship starting to go bad.
Destructive relationships range from abuse, infidelity and, or alcohol or drugs abuse.
These reasons are obvious for you to try to get yourself out of the relationship, but there are other reasons too.
The reasons to break up with someone can sometimes be many, or just a few.
These are some of the ones I am aware of.
If your partner does not back you up in difficult situations, think for a second time, do you really want to be with someone who never has your back? I think, in my opinion, this is maybe for important for women.
If your man does not back you up in these situations, do you feel secure, protected and safe with him? Sure you can disagree about things and have different opinions, but if you never feel any support or get an apology, it can quickly lead to the relationship getting worse.
Your partner flirts with other.
It is not about one or two innocent flirts, but is it going on constantly? If your partner does not see this as a problem, or that it is something wrong or worth getting upset about, does he, or she, really respect you? He, or she starts to ignore you in front of their friends.
For example if you are at a party and you know longer get introduced by your partner to their immediate circles, it could be a warning sign that you don't mean so much to him or her anymore.
If he, or she pushes you down by criticizing you for everything you do and say, you should think about your relationship.
Constructive criticism does not hurt but when they take over, it may be too stressful, especially when you never receive any compliments.
When they start lying about where they are and who they are with you, it is time to end it.
Small lies, often leads to bigger ones and your relationship is most likely doomed.
Honesty is always the best policy and communication is almost everything in all circumstances, when it comes to having a good, healthy relationship.
If you end up leaving or breaking up, here are some simple tips that make it a little easier: Everyday.
Do the things you normally do, no matter how bad it feels, or hurts.
Future.
Try to focus forward.
It will often be very difficult to think about tomorrow when you are in the midst of a crisis, but to plan and think that there actually is a future might make it a bit easier.
Ask for help.
We all need help sometimes, from friends, or maybe even from professionals.
This is nothing to be ashamed by.
You may want to go to a trained therapist who can help you sort through thoughts and get back on track.
Talk Try talking to someone who has been through a similar experience, or can understand what you are going through.
Sharing a traumatic experience with someone who actually knows how it feels can be very liberating.
Take care of yourself Make sure you do things that makes you feel good.