What should you do if your boyfriend wants to get back together? It may seem like a good idea.
After all, there were a lot of things you enjoyed about the relationship.
But was everything good? Chances are there were problems, or you would not have broken up.
Here are a few factors you need to look at before you get back together.
First, think about why you broke up.
Were there any severe problems? If there was abuse, it is better to stay apart.
However, if the problems can be fixed, then you may have a chance of the relationship lasting if you get back together.
This will boil down to how much you think your boyfriend has changed, and how much you are willing to change.
If you think he has seriously changed any behavior that caused problems in your relationship, then you may want to give him another chance.
However, if he shows no signs of wanting to change, this is a warning bell.
Stay away! Do not get your heart broken again! Next, look at the good parts of the relationship.
Do these outweigh the bad? Would you be willing to change things about yourself in order to get those good times back? If you are willing to compromise and improve yourself, then you will be more serious about this relationship.
However, if you feel you are fine the way you are, chances are high that getting back together will only lead to heartbreak for both of you again.