Shaking Off The Post Divorce Dating Jitters - Advice for Men
So, here are some tips that are going to help if you want to shake off those post divorce dating jitters:
1. You make the timeline as far as when you want to get back out there.
I think you need to keep this in mind, because a lot of the time guys will listen to what others say about when they should start dating again, but the answer is really yours and yours alone. All situations are different. Some guys are good to go right away and some guys need to have some time to get their post divorce dating life in order. So, don't feel like you need to crumble to other people's pressures of when you have to start dating again.
2. Most women are NOT going to run from you when you say that you are divorced.
Do you feel like women are going to be afraid to date you if you have been divorced? You shouldn't be. That might have been something to be afraid of in say, 1950, but in today's world, it is not that big of a deal. You might be surprised, but when you get over the age of 30, women are actually a little more skeptical about dating a lifelong bachelor as opposed to dating a guy who has been divorced.
3. Women are waiting to be approached, so make sure you approach them.
Women go out hoping that a good guy would just approach them. What do they usually get? They usually get jerks and guys who think that they are players, but are really just fakers. If you are a good guy, you SHOULD be approaching women. You'll be that breath of fresh air that they get when they go out and they will appreciate that.