Have you and your boyfriend broken up, and you want him back, but you don't know what you need to do and if you should even try? Well, you have definitely come to the right place.
I will give you a few guidelines to follow to try and get back together with your boyfriend.
Follow these and you have a pretty good chance at getting back together with your boyfriend.
The first thing you need to do, and you may have already done it depending on how new your break up is, is to control your emotions.
If you are still crying over him, you need to control that emotion, because that will often lead to panic, which leads to us doing things we later regret, and that would then make it very tough to get back together with your boyfriend.
Cut off contact for the time being.
Both you and your boyfriend are going through a pretty emotional time right now, and while it is human nature to talk about it, it is not advisable.
Because both of you are pretty emotional, you have a higher chance of arguing, and feelings of bitterness and anger come out-not the best feelings to have if you are trying to get him back! Instead, both of you need time apart to think about things.
Do not keep calling him, do not send him email after email, and do not text him either.
He needs his space, and the sooner you give him the space, the sooner you will have the chance to reconcile with him! Build a friendship first.
The basis of all solid relationships is friendship.
Start it off by sending him a simple text message or email asking how he is doing or something simple like that.
Be careful not to bring up the past, at this point in time, you need to start fresh.
The past will come up eventually, but start the friendship first.
After a text or email, do a simple phone call.
This may take time to build a friendship, but it will all be worth it in the end.
Soon, the text messages, emails and simple phone calls will turn into lunch or dinner together, or a fun, casual outing together, and can simple build from there.
It is very important that you have confidence, and he needs to know you have confidence.
Guys are attracted to girls with confidence, and if you show neediness or desperation or depression, he will more than likely run the other way.
Do not wait around for him to do everything with; you need to have your own life too.
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Do not waste anymore of your time.
The more time you sit around wanting to be back together and thinking about it, but not doing anything about it, the farther and farther away he gets.
Act Now!