"Love is a flower and you've got to let it grow" - Famous words sung by John Lennon and they ring so true in regards to relationships.
If you've recently broken up or are taking a break then read on and find out the best steps to take to nurture and take care of your flower.
Self reflection is very important.
You have to remember that a healthy relationship is a two way street.
It's communication between two people and a mutual understanding and respect.
Consider if the girl you've chosen is right for you and maybe if it isn't time to move on.
Also think about how you may have negatively influenced the situation and how she may think of you.
Before you start trying to win your ex back it's important you're sure you want to go through with it.
Don't put each other through more misery and agony.
First words are the deepest.
Start off fresh while learning from the past.
Avoid mistakes you've made and become the person that she once fell in love with.
There's no reason to get upset or angry be relaxed, calm and easy going.
If you want to re-ignite that spark then consider offering a non-committal date such as a drink with friends, engage in some sports an activity that friends and first dates alike can do.
It's important that you don't push the other person as taking it slow and easy will guarantee better success.
Mention that you've been thinking about her and the memories you shared.
Tell her the details of your first date and show her that you remember and care.
It's important you use the past to your advantage and entice her with your memory of the time you spent together.
It's not easy breaking up and sometimes it's even harder getting back together.
80% of relationships will break up at least once so don't worry it's a healthy and natural cycle of any human relationship.
Try these steps and tips to win back your ex girlfriends love.