I don't want this article to make you paranoid, but if you are here you already have some suspicions. Are you asking yourself "Is my girlfriend cheating on me?" First try to be certain about the accusations. If you have signs that your girlfriend is cheating try spying a little.

One way to check is to do a reverse number look up. You can find out who is behind that cell phone call instantly by using USSearch.com/reverse-cell-lookup.  Or try FreePhoneTracer.com. If this proves your suspicions then you can proceed to rectify this difficult situation.

Now comes the hard part, you need to make a choice. Is it going to be patch things up or let it all go? Letting it go can be just as much of an adjustment for you as patching the relationship up.

To patch it up perhaps all you need to do is step back and take a long look at your relationship. Do you still love her? Can you live with the thought of her cheating?  If so, then leave it behind you both and start on the mending. If there is still passion there you have a chance to patch things up.

First thing you need to do is not fight over it anymore. Try to remember when you had it good and build from there. Go out on dates and woo each other again. Take charge of the situation and romance her again.

Now taking charge doesn't mean to dominate it just means you need to push things into a positive direction. Laugh again and be there for each other more often. Make phone calls in the middle of the day to say you love each other.

Don't dwell on the thought that your girlfriend cheated on you.  That will get you nowhere. "My girlfriend cheated on me". So what, get over it.  If you want her back that is what will have to happen. It might not be as hard as you think. Have faith in your love and passion for each other. It's worth a try isn't it? You may not work out but you'll never know unless you try.