You realize that your relationship is over even though you have probably been in denial for a little or possibly a long while.
You are also coming to grips with the fact that you still love your ex girlfriend and need her back.
I would venture a guess that almost all of us men at one time have asked, "how to get my ex girlfriend to love me again?" Of course we're not talking about the same woman because that would be weird.
Sorry, just a little guy humor there.
So let's talk about some of the steps you can take to get back together with your ex girlfriend.
And keep in mind that everyone gets a second chance often no matter how badly you mess something up.
How to get my ex girlfriend to love me again?

1. First examine the reason or reasons you want her to love you again.
   If it's not because you love her, then you probably should not do it.
   Especially, if it is just because you're lonely or don't want to face the dating scene again.
   
2. Keep in mind that you're a man and although women might not say it directly they do want a man to be strong.
   So don't beg or plead or cry.
   That's going to turn your ex off just like begging makes most uncomfortable.
   
3. Stay positive and remember the good things you have to offer.
   Keep or develop, if you don't have it, a strong mental picture of what it is that you want.
   
4. Women like to talk so remain open to communicating with her.
   It is best if you're not the one to make the calls but it is good to be around for her when she calls you.
   
5. Get out and do things.
   Allow your ex girlfriend to be curious about what you're doing and she may begin thinking about what she is missing.