He Loves Me - Right?
This can help you to answer the question - He loves me - right? It is the sad truth that, according to male psychology, some men feel that is OK to lead a woman on; to pretend to love her so that he can get what he wants.
But often the things that this kind of man wants are selfish and will only hurt the woman when she delivers.
Sometimes sex or money will attract men, but that kind of attraction has nothing to do with love, romance, marriage or family.
So, how can you protect yourself from this kind of man? How can you know for sure? Well, if you want to know for sure - he loves me - right? Watch these things: His actions - over time.
It can be easy to pretend to love someone for awhile, but what happens over time? His true feelings will be made known.
So give it time.
If you really did make a guy fall in love with you and make him commit to you, it will be evident over time.
His actions - in different situations.
What happens in different situations? The saying is true that just about anybody can pilot a plane in good weather, but a real pilot can pilot a plane during a storm.
What happens to Mr.
Right when there is a storm? What if you have a disagreement, or you want him to do something for you? Does he argue, yell, or swear at you? When people fall in love, this is not how they treat that person that they love.
And how does he treat you normally, even when there is not an unusual situation? Does he ignore you? Does he expect you t o do things for him, but he does nothing or little for you? Does he want to borrow things, and then not return them, especially money? Has he introduced you to his family? Has he included you in family visits? Have you asked him to do so and he just does not get around to it? This is not a good sign.
Listen to his words.
Does he talk about the things that you are interested in, or is it all about him? Think about the answers to these questions.
When you add them up, they will give you the answer to the big question - He loves me - right?