Most adults have experienced a break up at some point or another in their lives.
While most have just moved on, there are also those who decided not to and try to give the relationship a second chance thinking it might be something worth it.
If you want to give the relationship another chance, getting your ex back must be the first thing on your mind.
Don't worry; it will not be as difficult as you think as long as you know what to do.
In fact, almost 90% of all break ups can be reversed.
The first thing you have to keep in mind when trying to win your ex back is that you should find out what caused the break so you know what to do about it.
Finding out what the real problem is will help you make much wiser decisions on what actions to take.
This will also let you know what not to do next time so that, if everything works out in the end and you get your ex back, you will not end up breaking up again.
Now, the break up may have been caused by just one thing or it may have been triggered because of something that you can no longer deal with anymore.
No matter what the reason was, you need to find out specifically what it was so that you can deal with the situation correctly.
The next step you have to take is to make sure you don't show your ex that you are needy and desperate to get them back.
Though you feel the need to let your ex know how much you want them back or how hurt you are and how you cannot live without them, there's no point of doing it.
What you can do instead is to stay strong and make your ex realize you're okay with or without him.
Get your confidence back and show everyone you're fine instead of being a mess.
To seem needy and desperate for your ex will only push them away instead of pull them closer to you.
This way, you won't have to exert too much effort to get your ex back because when he sees you seeping with confidence, they themselves will crawl back to you on their own free will.
If you feel you are confident enough to do it, making your ex a little jealous can also help you get them back.
Showing him that you have chosen the path to moving on will make them realize that they actually want you back and along with this, he will realize what a prize you are and that nobody else can compare to you.
When you do this, though, make sure you don't send him off.
If you try to make him jealous a little too much then he might pick up the wrong signal and just move on as well.
And when you try to make him jealous, make sure you don't hurt someone else.
If you're ready to talk with your ex again, ask them if they want to meet for lunch or coffee then set a date.
You can use this time to talk things over.
If you do, make sure you keep the conversation light and casual.
Don't let too much drama out.
Don't attempt to set a date if you don't feel ready yet.
If you do, you might end up pushing your ex away completely.