"How do I make my ex desperate to come back to me?" is that the question on your lips now? That means you must really be willing to get back in the saddle of your last relationship with your ex.
It can sure be done.
Described below are very sure tips on how to make him so desperate to come get you back.
How did it happen? Who was at fault, was it you or him? Whatever your answer to the questions above is you can still get him very desperate to come looking for you and wanting to have you back.
I suggest you get yourself together first throw away your garment of desperation, worry and anxiety.
Anxiety will only make you act unreasonably and everything you do with an anxious mind rarely yields any positive fruit.
So first of all put yourself under control and think.
Reflect back on what happened and ask yourself if you are the one at fault, if so I suggest you send a message to your ex.
Thank him for his decision tell him you understand things from his stand point and you apologize for what happened.
Don't plead with him for a second chance, just bid him goodbye and wish him luck as he proceeds with his 'new' life.
This cant be what your ex would be expecting from you, he would be expecting you to start pleading with him to come back to you.
Your unexpected way of handling things will get him disappointed and confused.
He wouldn't know what to make of it.
Next it is time for you to make a show of getting ahead with your life.
Rebuild yourself as a person, enjoy life as modestly as possible, associate with people bring your standard of living and your level of exposure, become a better person generally You can be sure that when your ex set eyes on you in the public he won't know what hits him.
He will feel regret and remorse for ever throwing such a jewel like you away and desperation will mount in his mind to have you back.