If you really want to win back an ex, then there are some basic rules of maturity that you should consider.
To win back a lost love, you may need to do a little growing up! As harsh as that may sound, please consider it.
First and foremost, be MATURE, This is important when planning how to win back your love.
Most people are much more likely to want to be with a person who acts like a grown up.
One of the best ways to show maturity is to always think before you speak.
If what is about to come out of your mouth is bad-mouthing someone or is negative, then consider not saying it at all.
Being mature doesn't mean you can't have fun, just consider everyone around you - even the strangers first.
Second, Be CONFIDENT.
If you really want to know how to win back your love, then realize that it starts with yourself.
I wish every person reading this would realize that they are an important individual.
Know this in a non-conceded way that you are special and you ex will know it too.
You may need to really work on this one especially if you have made mistakes in your relationship.
If you know in your heart that you are a good person, then let it show through your confidence.
Finally, Be PATIENT.
Understand that winning back a lost love may take a little time while trust and emotions fall into place again.
If your break up was due to unfaithfulness or lies, you may be dealing with some pretty serious issues and patience is essential.
If it takes months then so be it.
Getting back together with an ex should be a decision carefully thought out.
There are very important things you should consider and do along the way.
Two of the absolute most important are being mature and confident in your self.
While working on winning them back be patient.
Remember that you didn't fall in love with your ex in one day most likely, so don't expect to win them back in one day!