To say I was useless when it came to oral is a understatement because for the first few years of my marriage I never even came close to making my wife orgasm with oral sex.
The thing that changed everything was when she sat me down one night and said that she wanted me to lick her vagina but I had to do what she said.
Anyway that night we went to bed had a kiss then she pushed my head down and I started doing what I did best, licking her vagina like a man possessed.
That's when she took over.
Here is what my wife taught me to do when you lick a womans vagina.
1.
Use your saliva as a natural lubricant, especially when you first start licking and your tongue is dry and her vagina is not aroused enough to be wet.
2.
This is something that she kept drilling into me until it became second nature, "slow but firm".
She repeated it over and over, I took notice and couldn't believe it when after years if trying I got her to make a groan (only a small one) of pleasure.
3.
After a while she told me to put two of my fingers inside her and lick her clitoris using the same rule as above.
I could not believe how wet she got or the amount of noise she made as I finally brought her to orgasm by licking her vagina.
The whole point of sharing that is to show you that you don't need some expert guide on cunnilingus to learn how to lick a womans vagina.
You should just ask your woman for help, after all she knows her own body and knows what it takes to pleasure it.