Male Chastity and Three Huge Benefits
The benefits of male chastity are many and varied, although not everyone will enjoy every benefit.
Why? Well, simply because not everyone is in the same situation or likes the same things.
And while this is obvious, I think it's important we really do understand it, because not understanding it is a short-cut to disappointment.
So in this short article, I just want to cover some of the main benefits but without going into minute detail.
There are plenty of resources available should you want to do that.
And just one caveat before we begin: male chastity is not a panacea to mend a broken relationship.
Everything I write about the subject is predicated on these four assumptions:
That said, let's look at the benefits.
Increased Intimacy and better sex These are the two obvious benefits everyone points to.
The common myth is that the man becomes necessarily "submissive" and his wife "dominant", so he "naturally" starts acting as her servant or slave in the hope of some sexual reward.
I suppose this does happen with some couples, but with the vast majority the real reason your man become more loving, attentive and helpful is the increased intimacy you're both drawn to sharing because of the new erotic play.
Being intimate and playing erotic games is fun.
You feel and think nice things about the person you're playing them and being intimate with.
People who feel good about each other like to do nice things for and with each other.
And the sex become better for these and other reasons (for example, with male chastity the man is forced to use his imagination more when pleasing his wife, and the withholding of his orgasm makes his eventual release all the sweeter It's no big mystery and really doesn't include female domination and male submission in the majority of cases I've seen.
Gives the woman more control of sex This is a contentious one.
It's a fact that in general men's sex-drive is higher than women's.
This can cause problems in a marriage when the man is being continually turned down, the woman continually pressured, and both of them refusing to communicate clearly about it.
Male chastity gives the woman effective control of her man's orgasms, so the pressure is removed from her (which ironically is likely to increase her desire for sexual activity).
The man can also relax because he knows even if he initiates sex the only likely outcome will be her orgasm and pleasure rather than his.
Believe it or not, men really do love that.
Helps the man relax As men get older, they often start to lose the ability to perform sexually like they once used to.
They take longer to get an erection, it takes them longer to reach orgasm, and longer to recover for the next one.
For many men this is a huge psychological blow - and it can put them off sex entirely.
From our perspective as women we wonder why they're avoiding making love to us and, yes, that old lack of clear communication steps in and causes problems again.
Male chastity can help because it removes the pressure from the man this time.
There is no pressure to "perform" because he has to please his wife in ways other than just intercourse.
Ironically, this is likely to get him extremely horny so he could perform - but the chances are you're not going to let him for a long, long time.
Again, believe it or not, he'll thank you for this.
Eventually.
In summary Here I've just covered three of the potential benefits of male chastity.
There are more.
In fact there are so many, so long as you can answer "yes" to the four questions I asked above, there's every chance it's going to be a fun and exciting thing for you to play with.
Why? Well, simply because not everyone is in the same situation or likes the same things.
And while this is obvious, I think it's important we really do understand it, because not understanding it is a short-cut to disappointment.
So in this short article, I just want to cover some of the main benefits but without going into minute detail.
There are plenty of resources available should you want to do that.
And just one caveat before we begin: male chastity is not a panacea to mend a broken relationship.
Everything I write about the subject is predicated on these four assumptions:
- You love each other.
- Your underlying relationship is sound.
- There is sexual attraction between you.
- You BOTH are willing to work to improve things.
That said, let's look at the benefits.
Increased Intimacy and better sex These are the two obvious benefits everyone points to.
The common myth is that the man becomes necessarily "submissive" and his wife "dominant", so he "naturally" starts acting as her servant or slave in the hope of some sexual reward.
I suppose this does happen with some couples, but with the vast majority the real reason your man become more loving, attentive and helpful is the increased intimacy you're both drawn to sharing because of the new erotic play.
Being intimate and playing erotic games is fun.
You feel and think nice things about the person you're playing them and being intimate with.
People who feel good about each other like to do nice things for and with each other.
And the sex become better for these and other reasons (for example, with male chastity the man is forced to use his imagination more when pleasing his wife, and the withholding of his orgasm makes his eventual release all the sweeter It's no big mystery and really doesn't include female domination and male submission in the majority of cases I've seen.
Gives the woman more control of sex This is a contentious one.
It's a fact that in general men's sex-drive is higher than women's.
This can cause problems in a marriage when the man is being continually turned down, the woman continually pressured, and both of them refusing to communicate clearly about it.
Male chastity gives the woman effective control of her man's orgasms, so the pressure is removed from her (which ironically is likely to increase her desire for sexual activity).
The man can also relax because he knows even if he initiates sex the only likely outcome will be her orgasm and pleasure rather than his.
Believe it or not, men really do love that.
Helps the man relax As men get older, they often start to lose the ability to perform sexually like they once used to.
They take longer to get an erection, it takes them longer to reach orgasm, and longer to recover for the next one.
For many men this is a huge psychological blow - and it can put them off sex entirely.
From our perspective as women we wonder why they're avoiding making love to us and, yes, that old lack of clear communication steps in and causes problems again.
Male chastity can help because it removes the pressure from the man this time.
There is no pressure to "perform" because he has to please his wife in ways other than just intercourse.
Ironically, this is likely to get him extremely horny so he could perform - but the chances are you're not going to let him for a long, long time.
Again, believe it or not, he'll thank you for this.
Eventually.
In summary Here I've just covered three of the potential benefits of male chastity.
There are more.
In fact there are so many, so long as you can answer "yes" to the four questions I asked above, there's every chance it's going to be a fun and exciting thing for you to play with.
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