How To Use Psychology To Pick Up Girls
If you are relying on your good looks and charm to find Ms.
Right (or Ms.
Right Now) then you are basically letting chance take a big part in choosing your future.
On the other hand, if you've got a solid set of criteria, and a solid belief in yourself and your value to a woman, there's plenty of techniques you can use to take back your power.
One of them is to give her something to live up to.
It involves setting it up, in her mind, that going out with you proves she is a good person, and if she turns you down, she is a bad person.
Now, you obviously don't say this outright, or even close to it.
If she smells even the slightest bit of judgment in your language, you're toast.
However, there are some very subtle ways where you can imply this.
Simply figure out some traits that are generally accepted as "good" traits, that you'd also like her to genuinely have.
Then figure out what the opposite of those traits are.
Then simply introduce these traits, both good and bad, into the conversation, and let nature take it's course.
Get her agreeing with you that the good traits are good, and the bad traits are bad.
One way is to spot somebody across the room.
Say they remind you of somebody.
And that somebody had some of the "bad" traits.
It helps if you use a girl for that example.
Then describe how you were good friends, but because of those "bad" traits, you stopped being friends with her.
With any luck, the girl you're talking to will agree with you that the "bad" traits don't make for such good friendships.
They tell her how you sometimes exhibit the "bad" traits, even though you don't want to.
You try really hard, but sometimes it's tough.
Then ask her what her friends would say about her, with respect to these good and bad traits, when she's not around.
Since you've gone first, in describing your own struggles with these good and bad traits, she'll likely do the same.
She'll mention that she tries hard to exhibit the good traits, but sometimes shows the bad ones.
What are these good traits? Any traits a girl would need to have to give a guy the benefit of the doubt at a bar or club and give him her number.
What are the bad traits? Anything that would preclude her from giving you her number, like judgment, discrimination, etc.
Try this, and have some fun!
Right (or Ms.
Right Now) then you are basically letting chance take a big part in choosing your future.
On the other hand, if you've got a solid set of criteria, and a solid belief in yourself and your value to a woman, there's plenty of techniques you can use to take back your power.
One of them is to give her something to live up to.
It involves setting it up, in her mind, that going out with you proves she is a good person, and if she turns you down, she is a bad person.
Now, you obviously don't say this outright, or even close to it.
If she smells even the slightest bit of judgment in your language, you're toast.
However, there are some very subtle ways where you can imply this.
Simply figure out some traits that are generally accepted as "good" traits, that you'd also like her to genuinely have.
Then figure out what the opposite of those traits are.
Then simply introduce these traits, both good and bad, into the conversation, and let nature take it's course.
Get her agreeing with you that the good traits are good, and the bad traits are bad.
One way is to spot somebody across the room.
Say they remind you of somebody.
And that somebody had some of the "bad" traits.
It helps if you use a girl for that example.
Then describe how you were good friends, but because of those "bad" traits, you stopped being friends with her.
With any luck, the girl you're talking to will agree with you that the "bad" traits don't make for such good friendships.
They tell her how you sometimes exhibit the "bad" traits, even though you don't want to.
You try really hard, but sometimes it's tough.
Then ask her what her friends would say about her, with respect to these good and bad traits, when she's not around.
Since you've gone first, in describing your own struggles with these good and bad traits, she'll likely do the same.
She'll mention that she tries hard to exhibit the good traits, but sometimes shows the bad ones.
What are these good traits? Any traits a girl would need to have to give a guy the benefit of the doubt at a bar or club and give him her number.
What are the bad traits? Anything that would preclude her from giving you her number, like judgment, discrimination, etc.
Try this, and have some fun!
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