Have you ever tried to impress a guy, but instead you inadvertently killed the attraction? When you go on a first date, is it rare to hear the guy ask you out again? How many times is too many before you decide to evaluate your dating know-how? Whatever you do, don't make the mistakes listed here and kill the attraction before it even has a chance to start.
1.
Talk about the past.
When a girl goes on and on about her former boyfriend and past fun with her friends, the guy will not be a part of any of those memories.
It is okay to tell some funny stories, but if you do it too much, he will think you're still hung up on the past and not open to future adventures.
2.
Don't take care of yourself.
It is very important to a man that his girl always look her best, especially in public.
If not, it shows that she is not taking pride in herself and her appearance.
When you don't wear makeup and don't get enough sleep, you're just giving your guy the leftovers and not your best.
You can kill the attraction without even saying a word.
3.
Be a workaholic.
By spending most of your time at work, you are sending a message that your job is your main priority and that he is on the back burner.
While it is positive to be gainfully employed, you don't want him to think that you don't have enough time in your schedule for a love life.
4.
Be overly emotional.
When you go out to see a movie for date night, it's okay to be compassionate for the characters and sympathetic about the storyline but don't let it get out of control.
If you are sobbing next to him, he might wonder if you are overly emotional in other parts of your life.
By avoiding the temptations and dangers included in this list, you will be able to stop from killing the initial attraction that your guy feels about you.