I'm assuming that your Valentines' day was not a lonely one but something appears to be missing.
You may or may not have a girlfriend or you're just dating someone and you want to take it to the next level.
So how do you get her to say those three (or four) words you've been waiting to hear? How do you get a girl to love you? Consider the following pieces of advice: • The campaign trail.
If you're just dating her, you're like a first time senator or congress man or mayor trying to get elected to the post for the first time.
So what does the wannabe mayor do? He shows you his best side.
He promises the voters the sun, moon and the stars in order to get that all important vote.
Same goes for you.
Always show her your best no matter if you've had a really bad day.
If she's already you're girlfriend and as mentioned above, you want to take it to the next level, then you're seeking reelection.
This is slightly harder because just like a politician, you will be judged by previous performance.
Promising anything and everything won't wash with her.
Been there done that she would think.
So having a good track record will really help.
If not and she's still with you then chances are she's really into you and that is half the battle.
Then again she could just be bored and not have anything else to do but let's not dwell on this last point too much.
• Always be there for her.
If you're still dating her, be her best friend BUT make sure she knows that you want to be more than just her friend.
Whenever she has problems, offer help even if you know there isn't much you can do.
It's the thought that counts.
• Always look your best.
This applies especially if she's already your girlfriend.
Remember the incumbent politician and being judged by your previous performance? Same goes with your appearance.
By always being clean, neat and a sharp dresser, you are telling her you are not taking her for granted which adds to your points and at the same time you can and should expect the same from her as well.
• Let her know you're thinking of her.
A simple call or text during the day just to say you miss her or have been thinking of her goes a long way.
You can also try getting her something like a little trinket or flowers even if there's no occasion.
Or try sticking a note on the screen of her laptop.
She'll think it so sweet and you will score a three point play.
• Get her parents on your side.
Another surefire method.
Buttering up to mom and dad almost always works.
Often girls look to their parents for advice and/or approval on anything especially boys.
So expand your constituency to include daddy and mommy.
• Be consistent.
Try and be the same person you were when you met.
Again remember your track record.