Get out of that comfort zone you are sitting in.
Quit saying that it's not the right time yet.
You need a little push to get out and get girls.
Let out your natural you.
There is a you that is different from any other person in this world.
Get out of that cocoon or cushion that you are stuck in.
It is a whole world of possibilities of finding someone you can get and enjoy your life with.
Fear The fear of rejection or a fear of the past may be your kryptonite.
With a fear of rejection, you probably tried to get a girl and she brushed you off coldly.
Maybe she played you and you were the talk of the whole school or work place.
You need to rise up above your fears.
Understand this; she did not deserve you in the first place! This can be an obstacle for you to get girls coming your way.
You will need to change your environment to get girls if the places you have been going to are not working.
The past is gone and buried, look at what lies ahead with hope.
Friends Your friends matter a lot if you want to get girls.
Do they encourage it or discourage it? It is a healthy way to socialize if you are of age.
If you stay around girls who believe in being single, you will probably not get out as much as you need for you to get girls because they think there is nothing wrong with being single.
It does not have to be thought of in an immoral way, we are talking about getting girls and transforming your dating life.
So get some thrill in your life.
You have probably tried it and they made fun of you.
You have two choices - get out and get new friends or change the way your friends think when you get girls and transform their and your dating life.
Responsibilities Maybe in your past or upbringing, you were forced into a whole lot of responsibilities and you hated every bit of it.
You probably swore to yourself that you would not even get in a relationship because of what it entails.
You need to slack off a bit or relax.
This is your life now, not your awful past.
Put a stop to bringing your past to your present and even future.
Get girls and learn a different kind of life.
If it is the responsibilities that are stopping you, face them with audacity and triumph over them.
Practice Makes Perfect Once you have gone ahead and started dating, agree on the pace of the relationship.
Do not be speedy or swift.
Take it in such a way that both you and your girl like it.
Refuse any form of distractions.
You will be startled at what you will learn.
Learn new things together, grow together.
Grow your friendship and eventually you will enjoy what you have done.
You will become the envy of your friends and they will want to emulate you and do what did.