You are the only one that can decide which is the right online site for you! Start by browsing a variety of sites, making notes of the sites you may want to return to and set up a profile during their free trial period.
There are general sites that have the best diversity of members.
Hopefully you will find the sites with the best search options available.
By having extensive search options, you will be able to "narrow" your choices.
This way you will be able to avoid spending time with singles that you would normally be opposed to.
If you have specific religious convictions, it would be nice to know in advance if someone is an atheist! I know women that have had a history of problems with men in certain professions.
If the online dating site will give you access to the appropriate search options, you will be able to knowingly avoid they types of singles that are not "welcome" in your world.
Another issue you may want to be aware of while trying to find the right online site for you is, some sites will only give you "limited member" access to their site.
What usually happens is, you are able to receive member emails, but you are not able to respond.
Please tell me...
what is the point of allowing me to read but not respond?! To help "coerce" you into joining, you may receive an email from someone that appeared to be heaven sent! This person will send you a heartfelt message...
and you know the only way you respond is to join! Once you join, the member that was heaven sent...
suddenly disappears! Online, as in life: If it appears too good to be true? It usually is! Be selective while finding the right online site for you! Your choices are endless!