The balance power in your relationship has tilted in your man's favor and he seems to order you around much to your chagrin.
In such situation there are two options left for you; one, bear it or take back control from him.
If you are not sure how to do it then follow these seven simple steps.
Create circumstances that will shift the power balance To do this subtly you will have to be extra sweet with your man.
In a relationship when you give more than you take the balance automatically shifts in your favor.
Give him extra attention and express your love for him in a more physical manner.
Your loving care and fussing over him will give you back the control.
Make him the most important person in your life When you are able to convey to him that nothing else matters to you but him.
He will reciprocate in a similar manner.
Once he falls head over heels for you, the power and control will slip from his hands to yours without him noticing it.
Civility There are bound to be small disagreements and when they crop up try and bridge the difference in the most civil manner.
This way he will not feel the need to assert his authority.
You have effectively neutralized his control over you by being understanding and mature.
Let go your tear ducts This is one weapon that all women have in their armory.
However, overuse makes it ineffective.
Once in a while when you are upset with him cry and sulk for a while.
Once he feels that he has wronged you he will make amends.
However, do not use this tactic too often lest it loses its edge.
Take charge of his life This is the direct way of regaining control.
Take charge of his life and start to plan what he will wear to work or to school.
While you do this impress up on him that you are doing this so that he can concentrate on other important things in life.
Warning If all the above steps fail to get the desired results and he still bullies you then it is time for some plain speaking.
Tell him that you will not take it any longer.
You need to tell him "thus far and no further".
Put him on notice and leave it at that.
Seek professional advice You can either coax him to accompany you to a relationship expert or make a solo visit.
Implement the suggestions made by the expert and give the process some time.
If things do not change then start the process of finally dumping him.