How To Get The Best Man You Can: And Keep Him!
One of the greatest challenges in any young woman's life is how to get a decent man, and an even bigger challenge is how to keep him. What if he gets bored? What if he's too much of a 'player'? What if you do something wrong and lose him forever? Read on for some basic tips on how to get over such problems.
To start off with, you've got to find your man. Now, there are a lot of men in this world, but unfortunately, most of them just aren't up to scratch. Women much prefer monogamous relationships, to settle down with their ideal man, rather than sleep around all the time. In fact, those women who do sleep around often do so because of past pain with a previous lover, a broken heart that will forever remain cold to the warmth of love. However, if you're like most girls, you just want to find your prince charming and fall in love, but all you get is the constant stream of drunk losers trying to hit on you at the bar. Am I right!
In order to find your ideal man, you've really got to expand your horizons: go out, be sociable, but also try to branch out. Take some new classes, go to a nice coffee shop and 'drop' your purse near an eligible bachelor, or even engage in some volunteer work if the guys at your regular dayjob just don't cut the mustard! Heck, if a very bold young fellow approaches you in the middle of the street, stop and listen! Don't cut and run because you're nervous - he might just end up being the love of your life, you never know!
Once you've found him, you've got to 'catch' him, but that is easier said than done. Sure, it might be easy for you to have sex with him, because all guys want sex, but you are aiming to keep him, so it is imperative that you win his heart in addition to his hormones! You've really got to understand him like no other girl does; you've got to be respectable, sensitive and caring, first and foremost. But don't take this too far because you don't want to get him bored in the bedroom - always spice things up once in a while. Just make sure that you are not another notch on his bedpost - make him work for your affection and let a true connection develop before anything gets physically intimate. If you do this right, your man will suddenly find a strange longing in his chest for you, that he has seldom felt before, and as long as you keep him so attached, he is yours forever.
To start off with, you've got to find your man. Now, there are a lot of men in this world, but unfortunately, most of them just aren't up to scratch. Women much prefer monogamous relationships, to settle down with their ideal man, rather than sleep around all the time. In fact, those women who do sleep around often do so because of past pain with a previous lover, a broken heart that will forever remain cold to the warmth of love. However, if you're like most girls, you just want to find your prince charming and fall in love, but all you get is the constant stream of drunk losers trying to hit on you at the bar. Am I right!
In order to find your ideal man, you've really got to expand your horizons: go out, be sociable, but also try to branch out. Take some new classes, go to a nice coffee shop and 'drop' your purse near an eligible bachelor, or even engage in some volunteer work if the guys at your regular dayjob just don't cut the mustard! Heck, if a very bold young fellow approaches you in the middle of the street, stop and listen! Don't cut and run because you're nervous - he might just end up being the love of your life, you never know!
Once you've found him, you've got to 'catch' him, but that is easier said than done. Sure, it might be easy for you to have sex with him, because all guys want sex, but you are aiming to keep him, so it is imperative that you win his heart in addition to his hormones! You've really got to understand him like no other girl does; you've got to be respectable, sensitive and caring, first and foremost. But don't take this too far because you don't want to get him bored in the bedroom - always spice things up once in a while. Just make sure that you are not another notch on his bedpost - make him work for your affection and let a true connection develop before anything gets physically intimate. If you do this right, your man will suddenly find a strange longing in his chest for you, that he has seldom felt before, and as long as you keep him so attached, he is yours forever.
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